FOUND TRUE LOVE

Thursday, April 26, 2007

"i just showed everyone our foto... they all say we look really great together..."
am i supposed to be happy? or am i supposed to be sad?

anyhow... the thing with us youngsters is... we never think about the future. and do u know how dangerous that is? be it in any aspects of our lives - career... money... family... friends... love... we never plan for the future.

are our bank accounts filled enough to get married, buy a house, start paying own bills and live off our parents in another 10 years time? with 5 years of studyin... and only 5 years to work... by 30 will we be able to ease the burden off our parents?

have we thought about whether our careers will bring in enough income for us to support our own family? have we thought about what unit trusts or shares to invest in? or how else we can increase our income besides leaving the money in the bank to accumulate pathetic interests?

how is the rship with our parents and family like? are we arguing all the time like we have the whole future to make it up to them? what happens if u find out you are only gonna get another 4 more years together... wld u still shout at everyone in yr family?

what are the rships with yr partners like? are they truthful open long term rships? or are they just rships where u THINK u can marry each other... when there's just not enough bond... not enough honesty... not enough love for each other? dun forget... a married couple sees each other everyday... have u built enough friendship with yr partner so that u see yrself as best friends? that's impt cuz best friends dun get sick of each other... and u cant get sick of yr husband either. is there enough open-ness to be able to see that your partner will be faithful to you and the family the whole of the future? that he will be able to share with you any life-long problems or any other woman that comes into his life in future? is there enough understanding and connection to be able to want the same number of kids, the same type of house or furniture, the same name for your kids... and all these? is there enough commitment to know TRULY that even if your partner becomes disabled now u will still live your future with him?

do we even know enough to be ready for the future? do we know about investments and shares? do we know about careers, taxes, housing schemes? do we know about family and how it is so impt that every step of upbringing a child is so impt... one slip and it really makes a difference?

or do we just take the future for granted? do we really know what we want? im 20 this year... and im just highlighted about the enormity of my future... and it scares me... there's just so much to think about... money... career... investments... a marriage partner...

some of you may think it's not impt... that im only just 20... im still young... but think about it... is it really not that impt? it's our own future we're talking about here... our own lifelong happiness... is it that easy to not care?

always monsteroo 20:24

----- final whistle, game over -----